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Exploring With Vibrators

Posted by Secret Pleasures Boutique on 6/2/2020 to Ask A Sex Educator




Exploring with Vibrators


Vibrators can be great for solo sex or sex with your partner. Using vibrators during masturbation can be an awesome way to explore your underserviced or undiscovered erogenous spots and help you identify what pressure, speed and rhythm gives you the most pleasure. With a partner, a vibrator can be an amazing way to spice things up, to continue pleasure beyond erections, to complement the pleasure that our bodies can provide us and to give your partner an orgasm the way they like to receive it.

Ask A Sex Educator: Are There Sex Toys For Penises?

Posted by Secret Pleasures Boutique on 4/28/2020 to Ask A Sex Educator



Question: Are there sex toys for penises?


Answer: Yes, there are a variety of toys for penises!

We may have come across a lot of toys for stimulating and pleasuring vulvas, but what about toys for penises? The reality is a lot of toys that are marketed to women can also be used on men. Here are few categories of toys that are popular for penis pleasure:


Sex Pillows and Sex Cushions

Posted by Secret Pleasures Boutique on 4/14/2020 to Ask A Sex Educator

Ask A Sex Educator: How to Initiate Sex in a Sexy Way

Posted by Secret Pleasures Boutique on 2/11/2020 to Ask A Sex Educator



How to Initiate Sex in a Sexy Way


Sometimes we get used to one person in our relationship being the initiator and the other person being the receiver. It can be really fun to spice things up by switching up who initiates and who receives. The first few times you decide to try intiaiting you might feel awkward or nervous or worry about rejection. It’s ok to feel nervous, to worry about rejection or to feel awkward. Trying something new sometimes comes with these feelings. You can try to navigate them by being honest about them with your partner, by exploring what’s underneath the anxiety for you (e.g. is it fear you’re not attractive?) and by using an affirmation to keep you in the present moment as you explore sexy intiation.