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Ask A Sex Educator: Holiday Shopping Guide

Posted by secret Pleasures Boutique on 12/16/2019 to Ask A Sex Educator




Sex Toy Santa!


Give the gift of pleasure this holiday season with some sex toy treats! Buying sex toys for someone other than yourself can be fun and intimidating...How do you know what they will like? What if they get offended? Do you go for a traditional sex toy or new and exciting one? Here are some tips to help you pack pleasure into Christmas this year:


Focus on fun. Pleasure is play, if you’re choosing something that requires a big learning curve to use, or complicated installation/set up - it might take some of the fun out of it. Make sure you’ve read the instructions on the box to ensure your receiver will have everything they need to get started. Most vibrating sex toys need to be charged before use and most battery-operated ones usually have batteries sold seperately. It can never hurt to include a bottle of lube with your toy and some toy cleaner!


Make the pleasure personal. Consider their what scents, colors and shapes might delight them. Think about what fantasies they’ve mentioned, for example, do they imagine being tied to the bed with red restraints or receiving a massage by candlelight. You can create your own little fantasy pack as a sexy Christmas gift. Show that you thought about them, know their sweet spots and listen to their desires. If you’re unsure, text them three fantasy scenarios and ask which one they want Santa to bring them!


Be the sexy bonus gift. Pair your sex toy gift with a pleasure promise from yourself. Does the waterproof vibrator come with a bath that you’ll prepare for your partner? Does the massage candle come with a massage from you? Does the oral sex dice come with an oral sex date that is all about your partner’s pleasure? Put your pleasure promise in a card, on the tag or get creative and make your own coupon that your partner can redeem for their bonus gift. 


Need ideas for stocking stuffers, kinky kits or gifts for any body? Check out some fun favorites here:


Stocking Stuffers

Sliquid Lube Cube

Bullet vibe

Oral sex dice

We-vibe Sync


Kinky Kits

Under the bed restraint system

Kama Sutra Weekender Kit

We-vibe Discover box

50 Shades Darker Kit

Bend over beginner kit


For him, her, any body!

Creative Games for Lovers

Mini massage candle

Flavoured lube

Vibrating nipple clamps

Cock rings