Ask A Sex Educator: Prostate Toys

Question: How do I choose a prostate sex toy?
There are lots of different toys designed to maximize reaching and pleasuring P-spots (and G-spots!) so it can be tough to know where to get started. Prostate pleasure begins with some understanding of anatomy, brings in some exploration of prostate sensations and can involve prostate sex toys.
Ask A Sex Educator: Coconut Oil and Anal Sex
Lots of people are attracted to coconut oil as a lubricant for sex because it’s natural, long-lasting and some people enjoy the smell. Coconut oil has it’s pros and cons for sex depending on how you’re using it and there are other options for lubricants that bring slippery joy to anal sex!
4 Ways to Being a Better Monogamist from a Polyamorist
As a person who loves and has romantic relationships with multiple people at once, monogamy is not the best choice for me. However it is a valid choice that works well for many others. With images of my favorite monogamous couple and fusion Garnet, I give 4 tips on how to be better at monogamy. (If you haven’t already, go watch Cartoon Network’s Steven Universe and see all of Garnet’s monogamous badassery.)
Ask A Sex Educator: Choosing A Cock Ring
I want to try a penis ring while my boyfriend is open to it, he does not get why anyone would want to use one. How do we go about choosing one that is not intimidating but fun?
Great question! Cock rings can be used by anyone with a penis. Some penis rings are made of materials that create a fixed size, like stainless steel or wood, and many cock rings are made with materials that allow for adjusting size, like leather, rubber and silicone.
Ask A Sex Educator: Building Confidence To Wear Lingerie

Question: I really want to wear lingerie for my partner but don't know how to go about choosing something that would make me feel sexy and confident.
Yes! Get your sexy vibe on not only for your partner’s appreciation, but to get yourself flowing with confidence. Lingerie turns many people on because it stimulates our visual sense and our arousal from sex aesthetics. Lingerie can also be a fun way to explore sexy fantasies through costumes, to spice things up between partners, to build body confidence and even to provide a cheeky reminder underneath regular clothing!
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